Morbid Romantic

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-Aries-
With the sun in Aries a person likes to express their passionate sexual nature which is as fiery as the sun. You will love wildly, fiercely and emotionally even though this burning passion can just as soon subside as it flares. Then the flames can once again be rekindled, but not for a long time, Aries is likely to have impetuous love affairs and marriages and these can break up just as suddenly. Because Aries thinks along the lines of self centered behavior there can be relations where it is entirely physical without much feeling at all, this strong ego dominated behavior together with unreliability is likely to produce unsatisfactory temporary relationships. You will obtain greater sexual satisfaction and gratification by learning more about the wishes of your partner so that you share in the sex act. To achieve this two way relationship it requires the Aries person to control and check their fire and become less self orientated.

-Taurus-
Yours is a very physical love nature, inclined to the sensual but not for its own sake. You are dependable and union minded for you do not only want sensual relations, you are looking for a partner who can gratify you emotionally when you can become very lusty and the heart of sensuality. The negative side of this is that pure animal feelings can take over and drive you to excess in sexual indulgence without any search for higher expression.
This trait is most often found in the male who can be driven to obtain sex and sensual satisfaction rather as he would satisfy a hunger.
Taureans make love with the body not the mind, you need time to slowly rise in passion and fulfill all your physical needs and those of your mate. You wish to steadily develop the sex act from the preliminaries. Foreplay is important to you and, with all parts of the body likely to be equally sensitive when aroused, you want to delay the sex act until you are sufficiently stimulated.

-Gemini-
As a Gemini, you have a tendency to take sex lightly, for you have difficulty controlling your will of the wisp nature and seldom plumb the depths of emotional experience, preferring to move with the tide. In reality sex is something you can keep quite cool about, analyzing the performance of your partner while engaged in the act for the brain likes to keep active even while the body performs. You are likely to have more than one great love in your life and may marry twice. There is also the likelihood of you carrying on two love affairs at the same time.

-Cancer-
You are by nature both sensitive and romantic, your outlook is protective and sentimental to those you love and you are likely to handle all aspects of sex in moderation. There is a strong maternal/caring aspect in your drive, so you seek to look after and protect your mate and do all you can to satisfy them. You are faithful and loyal and will give far more than you receive quite willingly. There are two fears in your life. Fear of ridicule from your mate and a fear they are unfaithful or about to leave you long before there are any reasons for you to suspect such an outcome. You need constant reassurance of the faithfulness of your mate for this reason.

-Leo-
You love with a fierce devotion, setting your love on a pedestal from which they are likely to fall when they fail to measure up to the role you have allocated for them. You like to call the shots in bed, or wherever you decide the sex should take place, part of your wish to appear lordly and commanding, but you give both protection and generous amounts of yourself in love, you want to be admired and respected. You are by far the most romantic and passionate of signs when you have discovered someone you consider worthy of your loyalty. In early life you may be less fortunate in love through impetuous affairs but when you find the right person you can make them feel they are really special while having sex through the royal attention you lavish on them.

-Virgo-
Your estimation of a partner is all important to you for sex can take place largely in the head where you are much given to fantasising rather than actually living these fancies out, for you are unlikely to play fast and loose in your affections. You prefer a mate who you can look up to, there is a danger you will put them on a pedestal so that they will fail to live up to your very demanding standards and you will feel dissatisfied. You are very discriminating and set a high value on character and faithfulness, any flirtatiousness is on a superficial level. You want an ideal relationship where you can co-operate and be helpful to your mate, proving you make up in loyalty what you lack in demonstration of your true affections. Your fears about sex may include a dread of infection which makes you hold back in early physical contact with potential partners.
Your reserve in sexual expression may result in you being drawn to masochistic relationships where you play out a subordinate role to a love you have elevated to superior status.

-Libra-
You are likely to be too idealistic in your search for the perfect partner, seeking a concept rather than the reality of a person with their foibles. You would rather not know about unpleasant realities and are quite capable of being taken in by flattery. If this search for perfection is taken to extremes you could become isolated and frustrated, only getting involved later in life with someone else. Yet you have a great desire for companionship and partnership, for you value sympathy and understanding above all else. Underneath your charm and ideals you can strike others as preoccupied and selfish since you prefer to ignore any unpleasant home truths and can leave your partner feeling uncared for, or their needs not taken care of. You love nothing more than the rituals of love, the chase, the catch, the courting, the preliminaries and even where you know someone well there will be a gradual build up to the sex act, with flirtations and suggestions all along the way until you have them under your spell. Sexual satisfaction will only come when you learn not to measure out your affections according to the response for this can produce a sense of everything being too ordered and predictable. Give your imagination greater play and you are the most interesting lover in the zodiac!
If you are a man, you find it very hard to resist female interest and wiles and are wide open to flattery from them. You thrive on the boost to your ego. Women are often happy to provide it.
Female Librans are happy to play the field and enjoy the chase, they are in no hurry to settle down, preferring to continue looking for Mr Right.

-Scorpio-
Your moods are unpredictable and this produces an unreliable temperament that complicates your love life although you are more suited than most to controlling your sex drive when you want to. You are tireless and determined in your pursuit of your passions and can win the affection of those who interest you through sheer doggedness. Your sex drive is always there and you are capable of keeping going long after others have fallen by the roadside but even your constitution can be weakened by over self indulgence. Your sheer energy makes you an interesting partner for you can bring all your powers into play in the sex act and be an excellent lover, with self control helping you along the way to sexual fulfillment.
Your relations can be either extremely happy or the reverse even with the same person, for there is a part of you that is inclined to go to extremes in any relationship. When in love you are able to give utter devotion to your mate and lose the temptation to stray.
You are likely to stray on occasion to seek out sexual adventure but are well able to separate out this from your domestic life which is kept in a completely different compartment.

-Sagittarius-
Yours is a healthy outdoor kind of approach to sexual expression and you will start off seeing sexual freedom as as very important to you but most Sagittarians do eventually settle down after a rather checkered love life in youth. You are likely to be both sensual and flirtatious and seeking out a variety of partners, this can be taken to excess where free love and dislike of any restraint combines with a search for infinite sexual variety in sex partners and sex positions. However you are worried by what people say and think about you which provides some check on your quest for sexual gratification. Part of you seeks sensual experience for its own sake while the other half seeks uplifting experiences for the mind. The ideal partner you believe you are looking for will have to provide you with both.

-Capricorn-
You may not have a strong sex drive but are well capable of fulfilling what you consider your obligations to others in bed, even if you view it with a certain amount of detachment. You are also quite capable of having sex simply for the sake of it with cool disregard for any emotional factors in the act. There is always some confusion in your choice of partners since even where sex is concerned you expect to be able to benefit materially in some way and this can set up discord within yourself until you are clearer about what it is you seek from a relationship. You do not confuse lust with love and are realistic in seeing that sometimes you are simply responding to the animal lure of attraction. Even if you stray in a relationship you will not consider this affects it since you can compartmentalize your life and think you are being faithful according to your lights.
If you are a male, you will consider satisfaction of your sexual urges a natural activity and various sexual affairs may take place while you remain in a steady relationship, when it comes to sex you can be quite cold blooded in satisfying your urges.
Females are quite happy to exploit their sex appeal for gain in various subtle ways, and can be similarly detach sex from love.

-Aquarius-
Your idealism in general is also carried over to your sex life where you place friendship higher than sexual relations and are slow to let your defenses down. However though you can be detached and cool about sex you are also something of an experimenter and can go to the other extreme of trying out many partners and methods of sexual expression simply for the novelty of it. Your belief in the community of man and woman then takes on a sexual expression as well. You may be tempted by anything from communal living to group sex. More likely you will slowly learn to open up to your mate and respond with a fresh gusto to their overtures, for you like to look after the sexual needs of those you love. In many ways though you will regard it as a higher compliment to be seen as a good friend rather than a good lover to your mate.

-Pisces-
You are open to sexual persuasion and can easily believe that the pursuit of your sexual gratification in sensual delight is what you really seek rather than it being excessive responsiveness to sexual stimulus. You find it hard to say no and can easily give in to temptation which can lead to a very promiscuous lifestyle and infidelity in relationships. You are naturally sympathetic, a deep well of emotionality and rather mysterious if not strange to others who do not have your benevolent and hospitable concern for their fellows. You are highly susceptible to the pleasures of the flesh, even a touch or brush from your partner can send shivers down your spine of sexual thrill. You value sex partly because it allows you to fulfill your fantasies but without some control of your sensual nature, dissipation, alcoholism and general reveling in the baser side of sex will become a danger.